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Old 08-16-2007, 12:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
Tom Vizzini
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Default Are you tired of being afraid?

Fear is the most common emotion that gets in the way of success.

It might be fear of public speaking, fear of asking for a raise, fear of
approaching women. Fear of intimacy. Fear of confrontation. Fear of
success. Fear of letting go.

It doesn't matter what the fear is applied to. It is all still fear. It is
a very primal emotion.

Let me give you some help understanding fear. Fear has a very unique effect
on the brain. The more afraid you are the less access you have two the
creative and adaptive abilities of your brain. The less access you have two
the creative and adaptive abilities of your brain the more fear gets
generated.

You may be able to use willpower to overcome fear temporarily. Eventually
the fear will always win until you actually do something to break the cycle
of fear. While it might only be apparent in one or two areas of your life I
can guarantee that if you have this kind of fear it affects everything you
do.

This fear can become a trap. I can make you overly cautious. I can make
you withdraw and hide from the world. I can keep you trapped in the job
that you hate. I can keep you from having the relationships that you crave.

Anybody that has been trapped by this kind of fear knows exactly what I'm
talking about.

Let me tell you a little bit about myself and how fear almost ruined my
life. I used to be one of those people that you would never notice in a
group. I would think of something interesting to say about the time I got
over the fear that conversation had moved well past my comment. It fueled
my procrastination. The I was certifiably shy.

The result was that would wander through the world complaining about how
life wasn't fair to me. I would let people stomp all over me and say
nothing. I would put up with lousy service. I would sit and watch as other
men walked away with the women that I was interested in. I would also sit
and watch as other people would get promotions or jobs that I knew I was
better qualified for.

Fear is the most primal emotion there is. On the other hand it is a very
important emotion. It keeps you from doing stupid things. It makes you
careful. The problem is when fear becomes an overwhelming emotion. That is
when I gets in the way.

Imagine your biggest fear. At first it seems like something so massive that
there is no way we could possibly find your way around it. This is actually
what happens inside of the physical brain. Fear builds a neurological
connection to the primal brain. It generates a behavior that actually
becomes stronger through time if you don't do anything about it.

The answer isn't to eliminate fear. That would lead to a whole other basket
of problems. Imagine not being afraid to jump off a cliff or step in front
of a car .

Working on things like this is what motivated Kim and I to develop the 3-D
Mind. We met so many people who read so much potential for letting fear it
in the way of them realizing that potential.

How does the 3-D mind accomplish this?

The 3-D mind accomplishes this by using the concept of balance. Through our
studies of Chinese medicine, Qi Gong and other disciplines we discovered
that the best solution for one thing is not going all the way into the
opposite direction. When you have a balanced mind then you can have fear
and still be able to accomplish things. Fear will do its job of keeping you
careful yet not build an impenetrable wall that you cannot break through.

The beauty of the 3-D Mind is that you don't have to go into the past and
dredge up all kinds of unpleasant memories and relive them to take care of
the problem. You don't have to find someone in your life to blame. You
don't have to spend endless hours of self-examination.

All you have to do is decide what it is that you do want to do.

That is the first question of the 3-D mind. What you want to be able to do?

The 3-D Mind is more than just a process. It is an entirely different
philosophy of change than most people are used to. First of all it is easy
to learn. Second is easy to use.

No, it is not a magic pill that will fix all of your problems with one use.
Using the 3-D Mind is your first step down a path to cleaning up all the
garbage that keeps you from getting what you want.

Many of you have made the decision to learn some very powerful tools. Some
of you have used them to generate massive success in your life. Others know
what the tools are but have yet to bring themselves to actually use them.
It is time to move to the next level in your life.

This September and Atlanta we are holding the 3-D Mind seminar. This
seminar is designed to start you down the path of living a balanced life by
using a balanced mind. We want you to be able to take the tools you could
learn and start applying them and making them part of your life rather than
a collection on your shelf.

If you're tired of being afraid then you just must get to the 3-D Mind
seminar. It is time for you to become the person that you have the
potential of becoming.

If you like to make that decision today than here is where you want to go.

http://essential-skills.com/3dmpracatlanta.htm

We only have one spot left for the early seminar discount.

Let us show you how to have like you've always dreamed of. Let us teach you
the tool that you will be able to apply the rest of your life. Let us show
you how to become the person that other people admire for their charisma and
skill.

Instead of being tired of being afraid become excited to be alive!

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