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| On Jan 22, 11:14�pm, HellBwat <monsterbra...@yahoo.com> wrote: We don't have to get into it, the choice is always yours, if you come at me with bullshit, you get bullshit back, if your civil, I am civil. Why do you and I always seem to get into it? I don't mind ~ I'll chat any NLP flavor you like...but where or what is NLP? The so-called "bad man" of the 3d mild world? MY question is how long have you been into nlp? For you see when I first came into nlp, I saw it the same way as you do now, but as I studied, read and couldn't get nlp to work on a consistent basis , I had to ask why is that. Most of the techniques they use are located in the cognitive mind ( outer layer of the brain ) where real change doesn't happen. Real change happens when you get your emotions driving the problem to stop over whelming you or getting out of control. The techniques I presume you're talking about. I have to guess because I've found A ton of valuable information that I use on a daily basis ~ all from NLP training. Does one show visual presentations? Does one favor optional information? How much rapport do I need to successfully sell this presentation? Meta programs and what are their parameters and uses? No, your wrong, I am not here to advertise, I am here to discuss, anything that has to do with change work. Be it 3D Mind or nlp or cognitive therapy..etc..etc. It can be a nice little group once again if you ignore the morons. We could chat all day and it might be a lovely chat ~ with the exception of we wouldn't be talking 3d mild ~ your specific goal that you are here to advertise. The more talk of 3d mild, the more the \phone rings with sales\. Too bad' this used to be a nice little group. That is just natural for people to want that, I wanted that at one time, but the disappointment I was left with, which lead me to stop looking into nlp. When I took my first class or two I noticed the same thing. People wanted to change. They wanted to believe in NLP. They wanted NLP to be the savior. Well that is always why they would tell you to do something else, I mean if you hammer someone over and over again with different techniques, something might work. It is the numbers game. I'm a business guy. Results are what matter to me. When I worked with a guy who didn't love his girl anymore, he didn't care about NLP. He just wanted to love her again. I worked and failed. He was straight- foward and didn't care to fit into my model of change-work. I failed, we failed. In hindsight I know what I would do different. But I think you're right, if I fold my arms and stand there rigid, I'm not sure your average NLPer is going to sway my mind. But if you tickle me I might move in a slightly different direction. No dude, sorry nothing from the 3D Mind is like nlp. There is a lot of valuable information in NLP and in it's techniques. All 3d milds premises are from NLP. The manipulation of pictures/emotions outside the brain' mapped onto a place outside the body, perhaps out of reach. Comes from a Bandler seminar Tom attended. The gold light. Bandler. What next ~ shooting arrows from your eyes? Ok, novel idea's, but did they work? An Idea remains an idea unless you can do something with it to create something that works. Sorry dude once again you are mislead, Yes Tom and Kim did attend Bandlers seminars, but what they teach and what he teaches is two different things. When I attended a Bandler trainers training there was all sorts of novel ideas. Ideas and techniques I've never considered before. Tom comes out of the training and repeats Bandlers stuff verbaitm, and claims it's his. Look at all this new stuff I came up with! |
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| "HellBwat" <monsterbrat49@yahoo.com> wrote in message news:f19aeac6-6aab-4654-8a54-3f431aa175ab@j78g2000hsd.googlegroups.com... On Jan 22, 11:14?pm, HellBwat <monsterbra...@yahoo.com> wrote: > We don't have to get into it, the choice is always yours, if you come > at me with bullshit, you get bullshit back, if your civil, I am civil. In other words your behavior is completly reactionary and controled by others. So once again timtom, how is it that eliciting and anchoring states, rapport building, tonality, and visualization etc. all don't work when part of SS or NLP.... yet when part of something Tom is selling they suddenly are the most effective techniques for change ever developed? |
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| On Jan 24, 11:56 pm, "Odious" <Odi...@cox.net.nospam> wrote: Already been answered, your too stupid to get it, your not smarter than a 5th grader, so go fuck yourself. End of discussion. UnKaH > > So once again timtom, how is it that eliciting and anchoring states, rapport > building, > tonality, and visualization etc. all don't work when part of SS or NLP.... > yet when part of something Tom is selling they suddenly are the most > effective techniques for change ever developed? |
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| "HellBwat" <monsterbrat49@yahoo.com> wrote in message news:f672c617-902c-4ff9-9694-2d203442324a@e6g2000prf.googlegroups.com... > On Jan 24, 11:56 pm, "Odious" <Odi...@cox.net.nospam> wrote: > > > Already been answered, your too stupid to get it, your not smarter > than a 5th grader, so go fuck yourself. > End of discussion. > You answered nothing.... you simply make excuses because you can't answer a simple question. You say NLP and SS do not work... yet when Tom is selling the same components on his site as are found in SS and NLP, you claim they not only work, but work better than anything else out there. So how is it exactly that anchoring, visualization, rapport, and eliciting states all do not work, except when Tom is selling them? > > UnKaH > > >> >> So once again timtom, how is it that eliciting and anchoring states, >> rapport >> building, >> tonality, and visualization etc. all don't work when part of SS or >> NLP.... >> yet when part of something Tom is selling they suddenly are the most >> effective techniques for change ever developed? > |
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